Can you fall out of love with someone? and how does this happen?

me and my boyfriend went out for 9 months. and when he broke up with me i was completely devestated. he broke up with me about 3 and a half months ago. but im still crying over him? i don't cry as much but its just not working. ive tried everything to get over him. ive even dated other guys but im just not attracted to them. im 15 years old and a freshmen in highschool. im really skeptical about the summer coming up because over the summer me and him spent practically every day together and became incredibly close. when he broke up with me he just told me that it was too hard going out with a girl that goes to a different school and that he didn't feel the magic anymore, and that he just wasnt in love with me anymore. but i don't understand how someone falls out of love with someone? i don't know what else to do now.. anyone have any advice?Can you fall out of love with someone? and how does this happen?
Honey it's fine. I cried over my ex for about a year but I finally found a nice guy and he just vanished. I know it hurts but he probably wasn't in love with you at all. don't push too hard to forget him. It happens eventually but it needs some time.Can you fall out of love with someone? and how does this happen?
im sorry about it..its highschool honey and people fall in and out of love all the time. He doesn't deserve you, if he doesn't feel the love anymore, then he never really truly loved you. I know what your going through. My boyfriend just broke up with me too but we had only dated for 4 months. You guys dated for 9 and its harder to get over that long of a relationship. You shouldn't have startded dating as soon as you guys broke up. because they were all obviously rebounds. give some time to heal for yourself.
You are so young, and he is so young, live your life for yourself, not some boy. It hurts to be dumped, but it gets better. Stop thinking about him, and get rid of anything he gave you. There are other men out there, just look around your school. You're too young for a long term relationship at this point. Boys are too immature in high school.
It just happens. You will experience it eventually once you get over him. Cheer up. Go out with the girls, flirt, and enjoy the single life. You're young!
youre just a kid you dont know what love is yet...youll be over it soon enough...get out there and find new people to socialize with
Here's the thing.... im 20 years old and i had this experience but because of me...


probably way different than urs... but maybe it will help.. when i was 15 years old i went out with a guy.... he was really funny in fact that was the only thing i like about him... he was hilarious... we went out for 3 years, he was my first at everything even kissing... the school thing never works... i only got to see him in school...


at 17 i ended up having a fight with my mother and she kicked me out i went to live with him...





i lived with him for almost a year, at 18 i left him... and through away 3 years just like that.... i cried like an idiot





now here is what im getting to...


at ur age all u dont have love its call more infatuation, or u grow a custom to someone, or u feel attach to a person...


he cried, he said he was going to kill him self he couldnt live with out me all that, 2 months after we broke up and i cried and all that i found out he had a girl pregnant and the girl was guess what 5 months pregnant and she was 16 years old...





im telling u he didnt leave u for school he left u becuase as a guy they want to have fun and they only care about themselve im not saying that thats how men are i mena that at a young age a boy hasnt matured as well as a girl... so while ur 15 and thinking about ur night in shining armour they are out either thinking about cars, or pokemon cards... and in between how many girls they can get in one day...





im telling u dont worry u will find someone way better...





TRUST me im 20 now and i found a wonderfull loving person and we have been together for 1 and1/2 and he is the nicest sweetest person i kno...





and also no man or woman is perfect so let life be... live on and focus on ur future... it sound like an adult stupid thing to say but im telling u im here now and i reget leaving everything i did for my ex... and now at 20 years old im trying to get things right... i hope this helps in some way....