How do I fall OUT of love with someone, without them noticing that I fell IN love with them in the first place

I fell in love with someone I met some time ago, and we've become really close. The thing is we've become close that, even if something ever WOULD happen, we're too close as friends for anything to last. I really care about her, and wish that I had never fell in love with her, but I know that I can not control who I fall for.





How do I fall out of love with her? I never told her that I fell in love with her (her boyfriend would have KILLED me if I had said that), so I don't want her to know that I fell in love with her in the first place. Is it possible? And if so, how do I do it?How do I fall OUT of love with someone, without them noticing that I fell IN love with them in the first place
Don't worry yourself about falling out of love with her just carry on as you are, love her as a friend and appreciate all the qualities about her, maybe you will meet someone else who you fall in love with and then falling out of love with this lass wont matter.





I hope this helps.How do I fall OUT of love with someone, without them noticing that I fell IN love with them in the first place
first you're lucky to have felt that mate!


well, i have that same problem now but


try to start with telling yourself the real


thing. you're not for her or vice versa.


when you understand it, it wont hurt as much.


take care!

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Thank you so much for your comment. Maybe you are right afterall, I have to understand we are not for each other, which I already see!!!





Its hard to convince our hearts, isnt it ?!





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focus on other things.


you spent too much time with her.


you need to spend time doing other things now.


if she doesn't know now,she will never know if you just slowly become unavailable.


good luck.
Has she noticed that u had fallen in love with her? If she has not noticed that, y sh'd she notice that u have now (or ever) fallen out of love? Both conditions seem to exist in ur mind only. Enjoy the firendship and forget being IN or Out of love!! Can't do that? Then lose a friend and no-sorry!-in ur case don't gain a lover either.
its possible...


1) cold turkey...


2) find another girl


3) tell her the truth, and maybe she will hate her
well hifi turn the volume down ,and off if cicumstance dictate
If you love someone, you'll always love them. That's a fact. You'll just learn to live with it. Don't spend so much time in her company because out of sight , eventually, IS out of mind. Meet other people. In the long run, you will be able to look back on this with a warm feeling. The churning emotions you are feeling now are because you're giving head room to dreaming about her returning your feelings. Won't happen if she loves her boyfriend. You WILL get over it.
give it time and you will distance yourself from her that will help
Its not possible to just fall out of love with someone...if it were and you could just turn your feelings on and off then there would never be broken hearts in the world. I would suggest that you start to distance yourself from her, finding other interests until you cool off....it all depends on if it is true love or just infatuation that you are feeling for this girl...infatuation can go, but if its true love you will always have feelings to some degree for her.
Mmm, think she may have noticed and do you really have to ask that question, you can't just fall out of love with someone or you wouldn't have fallen in love with them in the first place.
Without meaning to sound funny, you better hope she does not know your yahoo profile. And you can't deliberately fall OUT of love with someone, just like you can't deliberately fall IN love with someone. Sort it out, mate.
Try not to dwell on it too much. Move on and try to date others.





Good luck.
You may always love your friend, but try not to compare other girls to her. I would imagine she senses your feelings for her already... but don't let it spoil what could be a life-time friendship with a lovely person. Find a girlfriend of your own, someone who loves YOU for being you. Good luck.
stay away and date others
Well, in the first place, you should have told her! 2nd, true love starts with friendship. As you get to know each other then love begins. but if the other does not reciprocate then problem starts. To fall out of love with her then start friendship with another. Stop your friendship with her and find a replacement! It will not help you trying to fall out of love when you always see or get in touch with her.
is this a phuckin riddle jack ***...
Ignore her period. Try to alienate yourself from her.
ANYBODY NOWS YOU CAN'T STOP THE FEELINGS IN YOUR HEART





MY ADVICE: TELL HER





ANSWER:YOU CAN FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH HER IS BY LETTING HER HURT YOU
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