How does someone fall out of love in 2 weeks?

Been together 6 years, he tells me the other day that he dosen't love me anymore and realized it two weeks prior. Everything seemed fine before those 2 weeks. And during those two weeks he didn't even bother to try to talk to me, just acted funny. I asked what was wrong, he said nothing was wrong. He isn't even letting any room for trying, didn't bother to even give us a chance.





We have a house together, have to live together cause of finances for a while. Could be a long while. He says that not to give my hopes up and that he can't make any promises but that maybe he will realize he made a mistake. But at the moment he felt it was over and he didn't love me anymore. I am still in love with him, thought we were going to get married, thought we were going to have kids. We had plans for the future. He was my future.





Is it even possible for someone to think they don't love someone and realize it was a mistake? Does that ever really happen? And no, there is no other woman.





Six years my yahoo people, six years.How does someone fall out of love in 2 weeks?
I used to write for a singles question and wrote an article about this subject. I interviewed many guys and asked them how they can fall out of love and move on so quickly. The overwhelming answer was that they had fallen out of love long before that but just did not leave. He has felt this way for longer than two weeks......and I know you do not want to hear this....but there is a big chance that he has seen or met someone else that he feels might be his way out. Most men will not leave unless they have another woman waiting in the wings or the prospect of being with someone else. It is probably the case that the romance is gone and he is immature and inexperienced in love enough to think that the romance is love. What you need is someone who has a real grasp of what love is.How does someone fall out of love in 2 weeks?
Here is a little tip. A man NEVER gives up his only means of sex without already having a replacement. He most likely has been cheating for a while and his new woman has pressured him to break it off with you!





Save your last shread of dignity and LEAVE TODAY! Move back with your parents if you have to. What do you care if he can't pay the bills! He is basically just using you to subsidize the rent until he can move his new woman in.
Hey if he is feeling this way before yall are married. I would not want to be with him anymore. It will only get worse; add a couple of kids to the equation. I know it is hard b/c yall have been together for so long. I would not waste anymore of my life with him. I say move on %26amp; don't give him another chance if he changes his mind.
it isn't so much he fell out of love with you but maybe doesn't understand what love is and he is surely seeing someone else it's all a game and the more you try the more he will push away cause he can have the best of both worlds but sometimes if you dint try at all you could lose the one you love and in some cases it is the best thing if they cant be fully committed through the good and bad.
You sound more in shock.





You can not fall out of love, no matter what anyone else tells me.





If you love someone DEEPLY AND TRUELY you will love them for life even if you are apart.





If they ';fell'; out of love than they did not love you in the first place.
six years?,,,geesh. hes telling you theres not another woman?...well im telling you it is...and you are crazy yall got all this stuff together and yall ain't even married?!!! omg...you need to find someone else, and just take it slow.





good luck
Think back a few months and see if anything big happened between you. I hate to say it, but there definitely could be another woman - it's the only thing here that makes sense.
It happens
i think ive been in love 3 times


people tell me its infatuaton.
He is with someone else.
It may have not been love... perhaps it was lust.
Uh-huh.





Makes you wonder what the catalyst was 2 weeks ago that brought about this revelation.





The possibilty that someone else has now entered his life is real. Or at least it can't be discounted. After that I think you'll be grasping at straws. People normally don't toss away a 6 years relationship that also involves big ticket items like a house.





His remark that 'maybe' he'll realize he made a mistake but no promises again leads me to believe he's involved with someone else or soon might be and he's hedging his bets. You'll be there to fall back on should this relationship he's into now (speculation again) fail.





If i were you I'd start checking things for other signs that this might be the cause.
Someone doesn't fall out of love in two weeks, it happened before that and that was the answer he gave you. As far as there not being another woman, you might be wrong. If nothing drastic happened in your relationship to make him want to leave you then there is a good chance that there is another woman pulling him away. Or maybe he just isn't interested in being in a relationship. You said you have a house together so maybe he stuck around for financail purposes. I think if you had some time apart he might realize that he is better with you then without you.
He has been having a festering boil of whatever emotions building over time and he didn't communicate or release them so all of a sudden you are informed of his feelings much too late for you to change them, discuss them or work on them. Men are strange in that. Women let out emotions continually and men for whatever reason ignore it until it just can't be ignored and by then their list of wrongs is so great that in their mind it can't be fixed. Give him some time and space, be true to yourself and a kind loving person. Offer to help and express your desire to work on things, but remember you can't force it. In the last two weeks it has just came to a head that can't be ignored.





Women shoot arrows, men drop bombs... For you I am deeply sorry and I hope that whatever the best resolution is for you happens rather it be that this works out or that you are free to go and find the future that you are dreaming of!
I ';fell out of love'; with my ex...we were together 9 years and I realize now that I never truly loved him. He never truly loved you if he can just leave you after so long without even trying to work it out...and yes there is probably someone else...I met someone else right before I broke up with my ex. I was planning on breaking up with my him anyway but my current bf just gave me the nudge I needed to finally do it. Do yourself a favor and just move on he's never going to love you the way you deserve and if he does come back its just because you're his comfort zone or because things didn't work out with the other person he is seeing and he will leave you again once he finds someone else.
I'm sorry to say but it is likely that he is having an affair. That is why he told you not to give up your hopes. He wants to keep you hanging just in case this doesn't work out. I wouldn't let him treat me that way. First of all even if there isn't an affair what are you supposed to do wait around and see if he changes his mind. Then what? You get married, have kids and he changes his mind again! I don't think I would let him treat me that way. If he fell out of love that easy then it really wasn't true love. And don't sweat the 6 years, mine was 26 years. He told me one day he didn't love me any more. I asked if it was another woman and he swore that it wasn't. He lied. I'm divorced.


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As for your living arrangements, I have heard a lot of people say what you are saying but how can you put yourself through that? Don't you have family or friends you can count on? Living in the same house with him everyday and hoping everyday that he changes his mind would be torture for me. Please consider something else for your own sanity.