How is it possible for me to fall in love with someone after so many bad expriences?

iv realized after many dates of the years, many bad expriences with girls and many girls im not compatible with, i find it harder to believe ill fall for someone. i believe that there is no girl out there that i will fall in love with. i also i feel im too cold sometimes, thansk to expriences in my life. how do i beat this?How is it possible for me to fall in love with someone after so many bad expriences?
Do you WANT to fall in love? The worst thing you can do is let a new girl be a victim of an old girl's problems. Just take your many bad experiences and use them as learning experiences - every girl that it doesn't work out with teaches you a little more about yourself and the kind of person you want to be with. It's all about your perspective on the situation - and the only person who has any control over that is YOU. Also, keep in mind, love always happens when you least expect it!How is it possible for me to fall in love with someone after so many bad expriences?
You just have to remember that everyone has bad experiences in life. Some may worse than others, but you have to take something positive from them and move forward. Go into every date or relationship with an open mind. Most importantly, don't over think it. It will happen when it's supposed to.
Dude, I use to think the same way. How old are you??