How do you fall out of love with someone when you are married?

I always saw this as an excuse to leave....


Is it an excuse?How do you fall out of love with someone when you are married?
Love is something that you have to work at everyday. You don't just love eachother because your married. Marriage is just dating with a ring. You still need to be putting effort into your relationship and try to make yourself better for them.How do you fall out of love with someone when you are married?
Not at all. Love is more than a feeling, it's a choice. Everyone has their pretty sides and their ugly sides, their ups and there downs. It's like the saying goes, ';if you can't handle me at my worst, than you don't deserve me at my best';. You should be able to love your spouse at their worst and their best...not just when you feel like it.
Ever watch the movie good fellas. Watch it like 6 times then it became crystal clear. People as they age go through big changes. You act different when your 18 than 28 than 38 than 48 than 58 and if your spouse doesn't change when you do roughly, you will just disagree all the time and grow apart.





A guy is a mobster for 30 years then just becomes an unemployed nobody, no wonder they got divorced.
I can honestly say once I love someone I always love them. Through changes of character and agendas you drift apart. It doesn't mean the love is changed it means the persons outlook and priorities change and you either change yours to match or drift. Make sense?
Why a person falls out love with someone is the key. It could be a host of factors. It is not always an excuse to leave, but on it's own can be considered as a motivating factor.
I THINK YOU JUST DONT LOVE YOUR WIFE ANY MORE JUST TELL HER YOUR JUST HURTING YOUR SELF AND HER SO JUST TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL ITS BETTER TO DO IT NOW THEN FURTHER ON WHEN BOTH OF YOU ARE OLD THEN YOUR GOING TO RECENT HER AND SHE WILL TOO.
If the other person is fulfilling their marriage vows and loving you properly, then yeah, sounds like an excuse to leave.
just cause you're married doesnt mean its IMPOSSIBLE to fall out of love


it can be an exuse though if something else is really going on
you still over here hating on marriage


when we are getting married in 40 years


yeah know.





I'm 20 yrs old! yay me :)
It all depends on what has happen through out the marriage. If there is infidelity, abuse, no communication etc.......
happens everyday, the ole girl thinks its greener on th eother side
people change feeling change...
why..would u marry someone if u did not love them??
it is just that u do not know what love truly is