Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Anybody out there meet someone and fall in love with them get pregnant early on and live happily ever after?

I love my girlfriend, so much and she makes me very happy. we have been going out for 4 months and she is pregnant with my child. we didn't use protection because she was sure she couldn't get pregnant. I know her to be one of the most honest people I ever met and trust her completely. I am buying a house and I want to move her in so when the baby is born we are all together. My ex-girlfriend is very pesimitic and is saying our relationship is moving to fast and she doesn't want to see me get hurt. She says how can you really know someone after just four months (I started freaking out because I found out her favorite color was yellow and was like OMG maybe she is right). She says relationships like this rarly work and the child is always going to be in my life and my responsibility. She acused her of lieing to me to get pregnant on purpose. Anybody out there meet someone and fall in love with them get pregnant early on and live happily ever after?Anybody out there meet someone and fall in love with them get pregnant early on and live happily ever after?
I did I have been with my now husband 10 years I got pregnant early in our relationship I was only 15 we moved in together had another baby and now we are living happily ever after. My advice to you is to stay together now before the baby comes that way you will know if you can live together or not, you never really no a person until you live with them.That way if you find out you can't stand her you can go on your separate ways while the child is still small.


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Some women do lye about if they can get pregnant to trap you into a relationship I am not saying your boo did this butt know there is women out there that does that.Anybody out there meet someone and fall in love with them get pregnant early on and live happily ever after?
never listen to a sour-graping ex... it can end a happy relationship easily, what does she know about your current girl? what does she know about starting a family, does she have one??Can't you ask opinions form others other than her? Anyway, first things first, if you really want the baby and have a family, go for it, don't let anyone ruin it for you. and by the way, colors, must not be an issue with your new house, there is always a compromise, a relationship is a two way street, you know. it can work if you want it to work, and if you really love her, no negative thing can stop you. there is no such thing as happy endings, in reality. good relationships are worked on, it's not given to you in a silver platter and its not always good days. you have to learn to know you and your girl. how long or short you've known her does not matter, knowing a person takes more than a lifetime... and dont you think she feels the same way too, or more... hey she's the one who's having a baby, and you are the one who's having second thoughts???
I just want to say it's possible she wasn't lying. I was told I couldn't get pregnant, and I kept not having my periods which is consistent with why I couldn't get pregnant, and I did eventually get pregnant.





I'm still with my guy. It's been almost nine years. Ironically, I continued getting pregnant...and now finally seem to have the condition again that I used to have that causes me to be unable to. :D





I won't say anyone's life is ';happily ever after'; but it is what you can make of it. If you love her, then good. The baby is going to be your responsibility no matter what, though I'd get a dna test if you don't marry her, unless you don't want to.
There is no such thing as ';happily ever after.'; That is only for movies and fairy tales. All relationships run their course. The real goal of a relationship should be to have a good run of many years and then split as amiably as possible.





Regardless of how well you like someone now, there comes a time when you wake up one morning and start thinking how nice it would be if your partner got hit by a bus -- with their life insurance paid up, of course.

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