I hate love, how long does it take to fall out of love with someone, seriously?!?

i was with my boyfriend for 10 months and we've been finished just over a month.. he seems to have moved on, already after a new girl texting her like he used to text me, walking her home and basicly just looking at her like he used to look at me. i feel physically sick when i see them together and i still shed a tear every once in a while. we still talk, i tried not to but it was too difficult.. the other day after pictures had been posted on facebook of me and this boy i met at a party he became all jealous and proctective he said he loved me but liked this other girl but he couldnt be with me because he hurt me and he was settaling for second best but wished he could go back, this put me back at square one. what do i do? i really cant get over him.I hate love, how long does it take to fall out of love with someone, seriously?!?
Give it another shot you'll regret it if you don't. What do you have to lose?I hate love, how long does it take to fall out of love with someone, seriously?!?
i would say get over him, you need to move on and get out there and talk to other guys this one sounds like a D-bag. there are billions of other guys out there for you to date so dont get hung up on this one guy life is way to short for that crap. im sure there is a guy that you can think of right now that might be interested in you. i say move on and find a new guy but good luck and hope everything works out.
i dont think u were in love...and i believe that no one falls out of love. everyone has one true soulmate. and i dont think hes urs. stop talking to him. throw out everything that reminds u of him. unfriend him on facebook. pinpoint the times u miss him most and busy urself so u dont have time to think about him
The answer, as ever, lies in music.





This time, it's Roxy Music with Over You. Listen to it. It helps put things in perspective.
he obviously is in it for something other than true love
Wish I knew how old you are.


When my parents were alive, the cultural age gap was about 40-50 years. This means that most people thought and acted the same as their peers.


When I was growing up the gap went to about 15-20 years. meaning within a large family there would be serious differences of opinions about almost everything.


About 20 years ago the gap went to 7 years and today it is about 5 years. You want proof? Just spend some time listening to the kind of music people of all ages listen to that are only 5 years apart in age.Nearly all of them listen to different thing.


My point?


Be honest with yourself, really honest. You and your former boyfriend have had enough time to find other differences in your lives. The attraction is based upon your feelings from the past. The reality of these feelings today have no basis in facts. Just reread your question. Dishonesty is one of the hallmarks of an immature relationship. This is not evil. It just means you sound young enough, shortly in your next cultural change you will look back and see how immature the two of you were.


By that time, you will have found another, and even far better relationship. If you are young enough and the cultural changes to every 3 years, you are likely to have several up and down relationship until you become a mature adult. Then and only then will you find a live long loving relationship.


I sympathize with you pain, but I do wish you many and varied experiences that will mature you and lead you to the right person.
Well not everyone has love. You have to wait for the right guy to come to you. Oh in your ex still loves he just went out with another girl just to forget about you. So if you want to make him feel bad like his doing right know to you do it. Even if you still love him i mean think about it his not the only guy in the world. There's alot of guys that can treat you better. It takes time to get over someone in sometimes you can never get over it unless some other guy comes in your life in fall in love with him. Well that's all i can help you with oh yeah p.s. you learn from your mistakes.