Friday, August 20, 2010

Can you fall in love with someone you just met?

i just met a guy and he's amazing. he's every thing i want and he's got a great heart. we seem to be mutually head over heals which has NEVER happened to me before. usually im into someone who isn't into me, or i'm not into someone who likes me. normally when i meet guys i feel unsure of them, i'm not sure i understand them and if things will work out....with this guy i had an immediate feeling of comfort, i love the way he thinks and the way he treats me...he's great, he makes me happy. usually when im with someone, early on i see several things i don't like and reserve my feelings until they all spill out, with him, i don't mind ANYTHING. we have the same temperament and i feel like i can intuitively pick up on his feelings. i've only spent a few days with him and i already have all these feelings and i think he has them too. is this really how people fall in love? is this too quick? can you just fall in love from meeting a person and instantly liking their thoughts, and temperament, and humor even though you've just met.Can you fall in love with someone you just met?
NO you can't! You can fall in lust, you can be infatuated or intrigued, you can make a connection and you can eveb be consumed by them but you don't just fall in love with someone. Love is like a seed that has to be planted and it takes a very long time and a lot of nurturing for it to grow and develop. It doesn't just happen.Can you fall in love with someone you just met?
Theoretically heroism could do it (i.e. a life-saving scenario), although such a scenario isn't something that you should go for to find true love, unless in the unlikely event such an opportunity arises. That's just my take on this.
Only if your desperate, and have no confidence.
if you beleive in love at first sight i dont see why not
Question to you first are you coming out of something major in your life? A recent break up, job loss etc..? This maybe a small reason for the sudden complete indulgence into this person. If not I won't say No as others are. Many people speak of meeting their soul mate and knew it when it happened. Two of my best friends guys that are the true definition of stan up. Said this to me when each one first started dating their now WIVES. I would say proceed with caution but hell whats the worst that could happen. Right now you have met a great person and are having a good time and feel good. Even if it is for a short time, well that's OK.

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