when you know u really cant be with that person and u really want to help yourself to get out of that state but nothing seems to work??How to help yourselves fall out of love with someone when it is really necessary?
You cant do that by your will.Just like you cant fall in love by your will.It need time and try to stay away from that personHow to help yourselves fall out of love with someone when it is really necessary?
remember: nothing and no one is necessary or irreplaceable!
Don't try to fall out of love.. it won't work
Just be mature, and accept you can't be with this person, and move on. Understand it may hurt from time to time but you are the owner of your destiny and your life and future are more important than one particular emotion directed towards someone who would, for whatever reason, ruin your future.
Remind yourself that you own your path.
You have to be rational and do what is best for yourself.
It's hard!! I've had to flee two states to get away from previous relationships. Honestly, in time you will be fine. Unfortunately, you have to cut out all contact with that person ,or it will just keep hurting forever......
The only real way to get over someone is to get on to someone else.
Try forgetting this special person by dating or talking to other people..I know you might not want to, and I know it's harder than anything, but there is someone out there for you, and every moment you spend unhappy about this person is a moment wasted without your soul mate.
Once you have fallen in love with a person, do not try to fall ';out of love';. Instead, I would suggest you to try friendship. Love for most of us is physical and emotional love. Being friends after falling in love is really a great feeling. Try working towards that. Because, this would be a friendship that is beyond a normal friendship. She is almost your lover and truly your friend.
If U are an youngster, after 20 years I am sure you will agree with me. Dont break this love. turn it into friendship.
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