How do you fall out of love with someone?

ive been inlove for with my bf for almost 2 years and im only in highschool and things are changeing in our realtionship i guess getting distant but i love him so much .. i need to get over him an find someone who will treat me better





how do i get over him ? can you really force yourself to stop loveing someone?How do you fall out of love with someone?
No, you can't force yourself to stop loving someone. But if you break up with him and distance yourself from him then if it wasn't mean to be you'll eventually move on and not love him anymore. The only way to stop loving someone is distance and time, there's no way to just cut off your love instantly.How do you fall out of love with someone?
Okay... relationships are like a band aide. When they get really bad you just have to bear the pain and rip them off. It's extremely hard to do but you'll get through it. I promise. I just got through a relationship of over a year and it was very hard. But go to your girlfriends and tell them what's happening. They should help you if they're very good friends. Watch alot of happily ever after movies and your favorite ice cream with your best friend. When you feel up to it go to a movie theater like you're too hot to touch and catch a few guys eyes and numbers. That's always a good way to get over them. Name all of his flaws and what you want for yourself that will also help you. Put down your Prince Charming's habits to his and that should be a major turn off. Just remember that you deserve more.
No, unfortunately you can't force yourself to stop loving someone. But distance (physical %26amp; emotional) always helps in cooling off feelings. Try to broaden your horizons, talk with some other guys, you're still in high school, no point in committing for life! :) Good luck
you should stop being so obsessed with him just trying be friends instead i wouldn't necessarily stop loving him it seems like your not much affectionate with him if you want to find someone who will treat you better. If he's not treating you like you should be treated then why do you love him so much..lol. Try getting your mind on other things your interested in like school activities etc.





good luck
If you're involved with this guy for 2 years, there are probably quite a few things that you gave up for this relationship. You can focus more on your studies, sign up for a couple of activities; try out for a part in your play or how about trying out for a sport...you'll have a lot of excess energy...widen your social network and don't go into cocoon mode. Enjoy your life and do what you want to do...
you're... asking too much maybe? finding someone who will treat you better hmm... unless you get abuse or ignored / not cared for by your boyfriend... why look for another? all relationship takes work. just remember that when you get a new boyfriend... sure things will be spicy and new for you two and for couple months much better than last one but... loving some one is great... but you need space... and in my opinion although girls are more mature than guys of same age until college you emontions are not stable yet. no offense. but if you really like his personality and you guys go well together why break-up? is he cheating or hurting you? cause if relationship is not as ';hot'; as before than you need to learn how to spice things up or how to make him spice it up a bit.
i guess im kinda in ur bf's situation if he really loves u thn i deffinetly am i swear me n my girl r in the same situation as u guys cuz it would b best 4 her 2 leave me but im so in love wit her im tryin 2 do better no im going 2 do better n make it work but shes givin me so many chances im scared shes gunna leave me n i dnt wnt tht at all but i dnt kno how 2 answer ur ? cuz im in ur bf's situation n scared
distance. ever lose something and at first u missed it but after awhile u got over it? spend some time away from him. get used to life without him always there, u'll get used to it. just dont run out and get another guy. rebounds are harsh and only makes u feel worse. enjoy being single.
you cant really stop loving someone, you just learn to live with him. Just remember the good time you both had, and hope that you and him can still be friends. You will find the right guy :)
You can't force yourself, but you can slowly start to keep more distance from one another. Tr yto think of all the other people you lovetoo
take the big step and leave him... i knw its gonna be hard but thats the only way... then as the days pass by thing will be easier.
im really not sure..it might take a while though..and if he isnt treatin u very nicely, u should break up with him..yes u will be regretting it but its most likely for the good..well i wish u good luck!
I give her my charge card...end of story.
Well, instead of just dropping the relationship, how about andling it in the mature way? Tell him how you feel, about what's going on if you really have no choice but to ';get over'; someone i have a few tips.





1. Write down all the little things that drove you crazy while you were together [i.e. he didn't act serious when you were trying to have a conversation etc etc] This list should infuriate you, you should dwell on all the negetives of your relationship. You certainly won't be swooning at the thought of him for the next few days anyhow.





2. Do for yourself, I know it hurts to be without someone you care about, and yes, it's OK to be sad, but, you should take some extra time to do the things you like [i.e. sleep in on the weekends, grab a book and read, go shopping, etc.]





3 Try not to think about him. Occupy your time as much as possible, spend extra time on homework, and plan girl's nights with your bffs. Don't sit around talking about it either, or wallowing in your misery, just think is he miserable too? Probably not.





4. After a week or so of all of this, let go. Let go of all the feelings you may still have for him, you're very young, and to be honest most people your age, have no idea what they want in the long run. You won't find anything good and new in your life, until you're willing to let go of your past.





5. Move on. Accept invitations to go out, ones you normally wouldn't accept, try new things, go new places, and eventually all the hurt, and sadness, and memories, will drift away and what you will remember is a dull pain, and even, after time, that will diminish too.