Do you think that you can fall out of love with someone in 2 days, after you have been with them for 7 years?

we have a child together he told me that he was not inlove with me anymore after 7 years he also said that he was not attracted to me all these feelings are not postive feelings because he is not sure how he feels how should I react or resolve i am sure that he is not cheatingDo you think that you can fall out of love with someone in 2 days, after you have been with them for 7 years?
Like the first poster said, this does not happen within two days, in a long-term relationship. It's more that the relationship has not felt fulfilling for a long time, and finally he's realized he's very unhappy... or he realized it awhile ago but finally decided to tell you.





You have a kid. You have seven years of your lives together. That's a lot to throw away and/or damage by quitting now. What are you both willing to do to make things work?





While you're probably very hurt, don't flip out or try to over-control the issue. He's in a state where he feels like continuing isn't any good. If he's not cheating, this is simple disillusionment.





This actually happens to just about every committed couple, at different times in the relationship. Seven years is a typical number. He doesn't have to take this as a sign this is over, this is simply a reason to reevaluate your relationship and see why it isn't fulfilling and what could be changed to improve things. It's an opportunity for you two to be closer, although it will take effort and work.





He should not make rash decisions either. Again, this happens to just about everyone, so it's not a sign necessarily he should be quitting.





I would go to counseling together, or find a happily married couple whom could guide/advise you and give you encouragement. You won't make it alone, you need the experiences of others to help guide you.Do you think that you can fall out of love with someone in 2 days, after you have been with them for 7 years?
no, you do not...it happens over a period of time...now, you may wake up one morning and say to yourself, ';i do not love this person anymore'; but the work has been going on for some time