How to lose feelings or fall out of love with someone?

My boyfriend and i were really good friends before we started dating and we decided to take things to the next level. Now we have been together for over a year. I told him a month ago i am in love with him and he said ';really?'; Every time i tell him i love him he smiles and kisses me. He never says it back, i told him that's fine if that's not how you feel then dont say it. I love him so much that i cant picture myself being with anyone else, he is my best friend, hes everything to me. But with the conversation we had tonight i just wish my feelings for him would lessen a little. He told me his feelings are ';pretty much the same'; but he doesn't like saying it he would rather show me. I feel like hes telling me what i want to hear. We have a perfect relationship but it just seems like he is afraid of or doesn't want to love me. I considered breaking up with him, being miserable, and getting over him.. but i cant bring myself to do that. How do i lose feelings for him?How to lose feelings or fall out of love with someone?
don't allow yourself to get overly dramatic about it to the point where you want to break up. if it is important for you to ';hear'; it from him, tell him that. if he can put in the work to show you through his actions, he should be able to open his mouth and say it with words if that would make you happy. if he doesn't comply, then you can get to second guess being with him. as far as lessening your feelings, the only suggestion that i have is for you to find something that you like to do that doesn't involve him. this will give you a chance to focus your attention on something else for a while.How to lose feelings or fall out of love with someone?
When you care about someone that never goes away. But time does mend a broken heart, you can either be patient and hope he finally wakes up one day and realizes he loves you, or you can wait for him to dump you. If he doesn't feel the same way I suspect he thinks he can find something better and that's when he'll probably dump you unless he's a playa and tries to juggle you both. Good luck
I don't think you should. At all for any reason. I mean, if you feel that way then tell him straight up. It's not good keeping something from your partner in a relationship. Let him know and see what he has to say. But, if he says something that's the opposite. then leave him. just tell him you want to go back to they way ya'll were and be good friends again. I know it's awkward but try.


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i had this problem 2. yu should find another guy, whos just as great, and cute too, and if yu fall for him, yu wont totally forget about yur ex, but he wont be as big as he is to yu now. and yur feelings will come back every now and then and they'll come back hard.








just dont focus about it, and think of all the reasons to hate him. lol no offenseee
I like my boyfriend a lot. but i can't use the word ';love'; that word is for a special day when i realize he's ';the one'; or when i find ';the one'; maybe this is what he feels and you may just need to except it
concentrate on everything you don't like about him, even stupid little things that don't really matter. Another thing you can do is start looking for other boys you could like and think are more attractive.
Maybe you can think about what it would be like if you two were as distant as you were when you first met.


Just an idea.


I've never *tried* to lose feelings for someone before.





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It is really hard. If you see him alot then it is nearly impossible. I know how it feels tho.One way is to say the meanest things ever and make him not want yoiu again. But thats only if you HAVE to lose feelings for him.


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Think of all the bad stuff (if any) he has done to you.


Think that he likes this other girl.


AVOID him.


Don't let anybody talk to you about him.


%26amp; Lay eyes on some other guy.
Why cant you just understand that thats how he shows love. Is he really open about how he love his parents or his brother or sister then how do you know hes not just one of those guys whos uncomfortable with showing his feelings???
men don't always tell us how they feel.they show us how they feel.when he talks 2 u.he it telling u.when he kisses u and smiles he is telling u.u r getting worked up 4 no reason.
Real men don't say they love you, they show you.
try liking someone else.
u cant make ur self lose feelings 4 someone.....it just happens





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Move on.
Time, honey. It's hard, I know. I have a connection with guys and it takes me a long time to overcome. You think about that person everyday for a long time. It's hard and confusing. But that's the only way. Continue your life. Keep busy. That is helpful. Listen to music and try not to listen to music that will remind you of him. Of course there will be moments and you will ball out. It'll happen when it comes. It might take months, weeks, years...who knows. But time is the only thing. You won't really forget about him but at least you will be able to move on.
When you come up with that answer, please let ME know. Breaking up with someone you love is probably one of the hardest things I myself have had to do and we can only hope for the best and pray he's safe and a miracle might happen but in the meantime we have to move on even though our Hearts cry with sorrow from missing them. If it works out then he was mean't to be . If he doesn't come around then in Time God will heal our Hearts and put another Love into our lives thats deserving of our Love.We should be treated like Princess's.
If after a year he doesn't tell you that he loves you, but you do, and now you feel that he's just saying that he feels the same way so you hear what you want. then you guys are on different levels. then maybe put him throught a little test..... don't call him for a few days, or don't text him.. if he notices somethings wrong and chases after you, then you know that he cares for you, and if you really love him tell him how you feel, if he's ur best friend then he should understand. But don't break up, because forcing yourself to fall out of love with someone is the hardest thing there is..., besides there's no need... he still likes you right? so no worries =D
I have a friend of mine which has the same problem with his bf, this is a really must have patience situation, this guy met maybe has some problem of shyness :) so its ok, he loves you. hes with you, isnt he?





Remember you too have a life, try to not to close your whole universe to your bf, dont you have friends?something you wish to achieve outside of school? like playing an instrument? learning something new? theres no way to lower your feelings for him, but you can use your time in other stuff.





Good luck, have patience for you and you bf if you care about him