How do i fall out of love with someone?

ve been in love with this guy for the last year, but its got even worse since we kisse d afew months ago. I dont think anything can happen between us though, but since we kissed its just got worse, i think about him everyday, i have this constant sicky feeling in my tummy and feel really upset because i miss him so much (he lives a few hours away now at uni) Im trying to forget about him buts its jsut not working, i go out and meet other guys but i jsut end up comparing thme to him and it makes me want him even more. How do i ever get over him??? Ive never been in love before. Im 18.How do i fall out of love with someone?
Tips on Getting Over a Long-Term Relationship Breakups


It is always difficult moving on after a long term relationship ends. There is a great deal of pain and emotion left, stuck right inside your gut, and memories that just don't seem to fade. Every time you try to move on something seems to remind you of your ex, and at times it feels like you can never quite get over it. The ghosts of a former relationship can haunt you, but there are definite ways to move forward and into a new relationship.





The first thing to do is to rearrange the look of your environment, so your physical surroundings seem fresh. This is especially true after a marriage or live-in relationship. A completely new apartment is ideal, but rearranging the old one sometimes has to do. Redesign your place, take down old photos, take down things you may have bought together. If there are things that specifically remind you of your ex, remove them, put them in a box or, if you can, throw them out.





After you have rearranged your physical environment, you need to get involved in an activity all your own; something in which your ex has demonstrated no particular interest. Taking a class, joining a gym or an organization are great ideas. Do something new, just for you, something that can take you way from the painful thoughts of the past.





Keeping active socially is great, if you can do it. Go out with friends as much as possible, go out to a movie by yourself. Anything that can get you away from your thoughts of your ex, even if it is just temporary relief. Over time, these activities and distractions will give you the distance you need.





Stay away from pop music. Sounds silly, but most songs are about failed love or some existing passion and while at times they can make you feel less alone, most songs will just get you thinking about your past. For the time being switch to classical music or jazz, maybe even talk radio.





Give it some time. Unfortunately, it does often take some time to move on. You will have your ups and downs, but you will be able to move on eventually. You need to force yourself not to dwell on the past. This is easier said than done, but every minute you spend dwelling on the past is actually wasted. It is ok to feel blue and think about the past for a bit, but you need to limit this by forcing yourself to stop. Get out and do something, anything.





Finally, remember thinking about the past is good for three things: Getting in touch with your emotions, bringing back some positive memories and most important, being able to learn from these experiences. You can only move forward, not back, so get going!








so get goingHow do i fall out of love with someone?
its a phase you are going through. trust me you are young and in the stage where you think you have found the man of your dreams. love is an interesting concept but its also a beautiful one and it will be a while until you think you are definitely ready to move on as for now, concentrate on yourself and you will see that he will no longer be a priority instead he will just be a beautiful memory. activities are fun to distract you for a bit but its probably too soon for you to start dating again...
I don't think there is specific ways to actually ';get over'; someone. And honestly, some people you never really get over, you just move on, and little by little time makes it hurt less. Try journaling, writing letters to him that you may never send, sometimes just getting your feelings out and onto paper can make a world of difference.
WHy can't anything happen between you 2...If he is married then BACK OFF.





If not then ask him how he feels...


If he doesn't like you, the best way to ';fall out of'; love is to stay away from him. Out of sight out of mind.
you never really fall out of love, you gave him a tiny piece of your haert, and he didnt give it back, just try to, get to know othre ppl, do things that make you NOT think about him.
Quite simple, merely fall in love with another!
U just have to keep yourself busy, try not to think about that guy.
This is perfectly normal to feel like this..you are infatuated with this guy and your hormones are raging as they seem to take over your every waking minutes as well as your dreams too....welcome to the land of the living.....continue to chat on-line but find some other interests that will keep you occupied...firsts anythings are hard to get past but they are the lasting memories you will tell your grandchildren one day....It's the start of summer and school is almost out you are going to be into some new things and possible start a new job or course???? Life is all about having feelings of many kinds but it is how we handle them that help us to heal...you don't have to worry about falling in or out of anything the right thing just happens.....