How do I fall out of love with someone?

It's been almost a year since he broke my heart. I can't stop thinking about him, no matter how hard I try.





I've tried dating other people.





I've tried just forgetting him.





I've tried hating him.





It really, really hurts to think about it. I feel so used sometimes.


He is always the last thing to cross my mind before I close my eyes.


I want him back so much.





I don't want to want him.


I don't want to still love him.


I don't him to cross my mind ever again.How do I fall out of love with someone?
I think if you're worried about ';falling out of love'; with him, it's just going to keep him on your mind longer. Know that, in time, you will heal. When you do think about him, try to think of something bad about him Don't keep remembering the good times and rewriting history.How do I fall out of love with someone?
it just kinda happens srry thats just how it works sometimes you wont fall out of love try being friends and in time you will fall out of love
I'm sorry you are having trouble getting over your ex! I think at this point, the only thing you can do is wait for more time to pass and the feelings will eventually fade away.





Maybe another way to get over him is to confront him again and see how he is doing-- does he miss you too? Does he have a gf? If he isn't hung up on you, then maybe that will make it easier for you to get over him.





I wish there was a way for you to get over him just like that, I'm sorry!
Maybe of you stop thinking of yourslef and your circumstances then you will forget about him too.its like an automatic thing , also try to get involved in clubs , groups , communites you like and meet awesome people which keep your mind busy , also notice that if you guys arent together anymore it means soemthing better is destined for you , and that remembering the past is like trying to chew gum that soembody else had in theri mouths.Mediattion helps you clear and empty your mind from recurring thoughts
I've been there. This is a hard situation, but here a few suggestions:





1. Get involved with an activity you love, make new friends, meet new people.


2. Keep busy. Its times when you are bored and lonely when you can sit and brood on him, which will not help you get over him. Try your best to always have something to do, somewhere to be.


3. When you start thinking about him, mentally change the subject. Do NOT sit and fantasize about the times you had together, relive the memories, think about you two together, etc. This will only make you dwell on the past, and it won't help you or make you feel better. Change your mind's subject. If you feel you are thinking about him again, read a book, watch a movie, play an internet game. Do something to distract your mind.


4. Delete all songs in your iTunes library that remind you of him, don't watch movies or listen to songs that remind you of your times together. This will only, again, make you brood on the subject of him.


5. Do not ask your friends about him, his friends about him, do not facebook stalk him, myspace stalk him, etc. It will only make you feel jealous of the girls or people he is now giving his attention to. Which in the long run will not help you.


6. If you believe in God, pray for these feelings for him to go away. In my personal experience it helped a lot.


7. Keep a journal to write about your new experiences and new friends you have met, this will allow you to dwell on this new exciting time of your life.





I hope this will work for you. Time really helps. Make a geniune effort to get over it, and eventually you will.
it'll hurt just as much, but it'll hurt less often.





give it time.
The hardest thing to do is to fall out of love. Think of him less, and this too shall pass.
Obviously the passage of time is going to help immensely, but unfortunately there's no way of fast forwarding time to the point where you no longer hurt so badly from the breakup.





One thing you can do to help keep your mind off the pain is to rediscover yourself and things you are passionate about. Perhaps there is a project or activity you always wanted to try or learn but pushed it to the side when your relationship began to take up most of your time.





Well now is the time to commit yourself to doing something like that. Perhaps you can join a group that is involved in the same activities. That would be a fantastic way to meet new people without the stress of ';dating';, which probably still only reminds you of the ex.





The main thing this will hopefully help you do is rebuild your self-esteem. Everyone's self-esteem takes a hit following a breakup, especially one in which you've been dumped.





Given that you're really having a hard time with this, make sure that you no longer maintain any contact with him. Box away any mementos that would serve as painful reminders of the relationship, and don't pull them back out. If you have to, temporarily divest yourself of any casual friendships that remind you of the relationship. You can do that with an explanation that you just need some time to yourself to regroup.





Once you feel good about yourself again it won't hurt nearly as much. You'll see his flaws more clearly, and you'd probably no longer want him back even if he were to come back to you..