How can you be just friends with someone you truely love...
but not really love them. I need some kind of way to make me not love him...
take note... we are best friends and i think i'de die if i couldnt talk to him as a friend...
so us not being friends is not an option....How can I fall out of love with someone?
i don't think some ppl that answered understand.
the only thing i can really tell you to do (because it virtually is impossible to get rid of those feelings without losing the friend) is to get him to fall for you.
idk how to do that, besides being yourself. it very well could happen.How can I fall out of love with someone?
agreed, guys are soooo confusing.
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i've never been in that situation myself but think of the consequences if you did start going out.
firstly you would see each other in a whole different way.
you will find it difficult to express feelings due to your past.
and if anything was to happen it would be awkward to re build your friendship.
I think you just need to keep telling yourself this and hope that one day you will forget,
its the only thing you can do. but make sure you just continue acting normal towards him, i'm sure you will realise that you don't love him and it was all in your head. xxx
That happened to me, but I'm a guy and the other person was a girl, what helped me out was being apart from her for a while. Once you realize that when you fall in love with your best friend things become really awkward and different, usually you fall out of love. This usually passes with time.
i am in exactly the same situation as you,, it sucks so bad,, she just wants to be friends and im trying to make her fall for me by ignoring her ( so she misses me ) but i can't even go 2 days without speaking to her,, it will never grow to be more than friendship and i would love to know how to fall out of love with someone,,
people tell me,, think of the bad points she has,,
the bad times you have had together,,
and finally cut her out of your life,, but i can't do any of them :(
Try to meet someone new and get some time away from the friend. If someone doesn't make you feel good about yourself it'd be hard to be around that person. You can keep the person as a friend but limit the time because if that's the main person in your life you wont get over the person.
going through the same thing with my best friend. hes also my ex, so that makes it hard. you dont need to not fall in love with him, you can make him fall in love with you. just be yourself. im in the same funk, so im trying to get a second chance with him, cuz it would be very akward to not be with him. dont worry, you might find someone else. good luck and best wishes.
Consider that he is a flawed human being. Imagine him doing disgusting things--dirty, human things. The more you realize he's just another person, the more you can put your feelings into perspective.
Well if you really love him you should tell him how you feel but instead of saying ';i have deep feelings for you and i love you'; say it like this ';i really like you as a friend ut i dont want to get any farther';
You cannot control whom you love. Love is not something you can turn on or off.
You can't change your feelings. Just go with it
Just think of him ulgy i did to my girl i think that way to how sdoppsihs.
You never know until u ask if he thinks of u that way or not. I think you should ask him how he really feels about you. Then go from there
point out all the bad things about him! and notice the other hot guys! especially while around him
hang out with someone else. Talk to him less.
Yea its hard to fall out of love with someone I should now I'm Turingg hard *** hell to fall out of love with a girl right now whos a friend as well. its not impossible its just really hard I have tried everthing but still could not fall out of love with this person. when i say everything i mean everything like I tried ignore them, tried erasing them, i even started to date another women but the feelings i had for her never went away. I would say the best thing to do is to ask your self what made you and him best friends in the first pace? A lot of people believe in soul mates who knows maybe this guy is your soul mate. This could be the guy who will make you happy, The guy you will spend the rest of your life. I guess my best advice I could give you is not to fight these feelings but instead try and understand them and also tell him how you feel. Becasue you never know he could feel the same way for you but he thought the same way you think and dose not want to ruin you'll friendship
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