How can I love someone but yet fall in love with another?

I just cant get this out of my head..Im married I love my husband, but I have fallin in love with another. Im confused and stressed out I dont know what to do....I feel absolutely terrible about this but my heart screams for this other man.....How can I love someone but yet fall in love with another?
Pheremones are pretty powerful things, but you can control your actions. Do not wreck your marriage over this. Don't put yourself in a situation where you are interacting with this other guy. Try to actively channel this into a greater love for your husband. If you are the praying type, ask God for help.How can I love someone but yet fall in love with another?
Love is not limited to one person, which is why choice comes into play. You chose your husband, period. However, it is a choice you actively need to make every day. You made a vow to stand by him, to love him, and cherish him and he made the same vow to you. Perhaps you both are taking more than you're putting in, have gotten a little negligent in the relationship upkeep, or haven't set aside time for just the two of you...In any case, it's your responsibility, as well as his, to make sure that spark doesn't fade. It's your responsibility to have avoided the other man the moment you realized you were emotionally cheating on your husband. Now it's your responsibility to abandon the other man, and work on your relationship. You married him not only for love, but compatibility, shared history, etc, right? You have none of that with this man, just feelings based on fantasy.





When you stop putting as much in as you take out (and vice versa), or stop doing things like you used (going out on dates, hanging out with friends, etc) the spark fades.





EDIT: I just read your previous question, and I a sorry for the loss of your son. You do not love that other man, in your grief, and need of someone to share your pain with someone you bonded with the first person who lent their shoulder and sympathy. I do not mean that cruelly. Your husband likely doesn't know how to deal with his own grief, and you both are way past due for counseling. Please don't hesitate. It's incredibly hard on marriages when children die, but it isn't impossible.


Best wishes, and many prayers.
LOVE your husband and forget about the other guy. Come on, why would you get married and think about this other guy ??
u are just selfish thats all