Being physically, mentally, and emotionally in love are all required I think. So, if you don't like him physically or mentally any more then maybe he's not the right guy for you.
I would suggest take a break. Hang out with other friends or somthing for a couple weeks and see how you feel after you've been apart for a while. If you miss him then go back to him and if you don't then move on.How do I fall back in love with someone u fell out of love with?
Well, I have immaturely tried to do that also, but like you said that ';spark'; was lost and gone forever. It wasn't the same. I had tried really hard but after a few days asked myself ';what the hell am I doing?'; It was a lost cause. At that point I didn't even see her the same as I did the first time around. It was like rebuilding your house after it was swept away by a tornado or hurricane. It's just NOT going to be the same and will never be.
Your best bet is to let it be and move on. Save yourself the aggravation and regret that you will most likely experience by trying to go BACKWARDS and not FORWARDS by attempting to resurrect a past emotion. You have to ask yourself ';why you broke up in the first place?';
Good luck on that!! Ciao!
think about y you fell outta love,
try to think of y u 鈾 this person in the 1st place!:)
give ur self a break, try to stay away from him for a while, if there's any chance u can love him again, u will just do it...
otherwise, what can u do, just find ur life...
Falling in love is not a process you can make happen - it comes from a feeling and that feeling has to come from both parties equally and fully. Maybe you need to search yourself and figure out what's missing and what caused it. Bottom line - if it is meant to be, it will be. And if you truly love someone, you shouldn't have ANY doubts or have to ask yourself if you love them. Love should be natural. He may be great in all kinds of ways but he also may be lacking some sort of quality or one little thing that could make you feel unfulfilled and you don't want to spend the rest of your life with someone who doesn't quite measure up. I had a similar situation. Even though it may suck if you decide to end the relationship due to this, you may be better off for it in the end for having stayed true to yourself and your needs. So, think about the big picture and decide what you want and what you don't want, what you like and what you don't like. Set your standards and never settle for second best - that's my motto! If you settle for second best thinking it might be OK, or that you can deal with it or that it might change, you'll only end up being unhappy. Never compromise your happiness. Good luck!
just try to spend as much time as possible with him
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