How do I fall out of love with someone I have to work with?

I am insanely in love with this man. I'm a shame of letting him know (although I think he already suspects that I have fallen for him). I don't think I'm his type. I have been feeling this way about him for 8 months. We are both single. I really don't think we will ever be together. I don't want to be in love with someone that I know I can't have.How do I fall out of love with someone I have to work with?
Well I feel you can't make yourself not feel a certain way about someone. It's how you feel right now and thats that. It's been 8 months as well of yearning so I think your stuck on liking him :-).





I'd say you may as well let him know you really enjoy his company at work, and would like to visit him for a coffee or maybe walking your/his dog one day on the weekend if hes free.





Best to ask something casual and start slow so you don't make him feel pressured or cornered. If he is unreceptive then you at least know and won't be guessing all the time. Even if he isn't receptive you could ask again in a month or so but don't keep asking over and over again.





If he is receptive just go out for the Coffee or the stroll and enjoy his company. Start it slow and ramp it up from there.





I think as long as your calm and casual in your aproach it is fine to ask him. Since you are Co-Workers the oportunity to feel pressured or trapped (either one of you) is strong so best to be easygoing as possible as you don't want to ruin your place or his at Work.How do I fall out of love with someone I have to work with?
Thanks for the kind words Namnow. I just said what I thought. I hope you ask him for a Dog Walk, and you find out where you stand.

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Ordinarily I would tell you to find a way to reveal your feelings to him. At least by letting him know that you are attracted to him. BUT, since you work with him, I wouldn't advise that unless you were quite certain that he might feel the same way about you.





There are plenty of fish in the sea, and the best thing you can do to get over him is find another guy.





I know that's much easier said than done, but you've got to position yourself so that it can happen. In other words, look carefully for opportunities to meet other guys.





Believe me, I know how you feel. Love REALLY hurts sometimes. Good luck!
Move on, find someone else, stop banging your head against a brick wall. Get a puppy or something, but don't waste anymore time on something you don't want
KEEP YOURSELF EXTREMELY BUSY AND IF AT ALL POSSIBLE AVOID HIM EVEN IF U WORK WITH HIM, ITS HARD BUT U JUST DO IT.
Work %26amp; relationships can be a doubled edged sword. Trust me its far better to find someone outside of work or at least someone you don't have to deal with directly at work every day.
just always keep in mind that he will always be your co-worker and nothing more.
We can't help who we fall in love with can we. Are you sure you can't have him? I assume you think he does not return your feelings. Honey, I wish I knew what to tell you. If only you could meet someone else it would help but, until you do I know it's painful. I know how you feel and I hope things get better soon. But, don't beat yourself up. You are feeling a good emotion. Be glad you are capable of it. Some lucky guy will sweep you off your feet someday. Chin up and good luck.
just find someone else outside of the job so it dont interfer with the job
Try to get that person out of your mind and find someone outside your job that is interesting to you! Then that will knock that other person that works with you out of your mind.
how can you be n love with somone you never dated or anyting

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