How do you make someone fall out of love?

Basically, I screwed up and had sex with one of my best friends...more than once. I thought that we were both completely under the understanding that it was nothing but that. Unfortunately, they continuously tell me that they are totally in love with me. Oh, this person also has a gf. So, now I'm sounding like a slutty homewrecker, but that's not what I want to be, scratch that, that is not who I am. I want them to fall out of love with me. I want to be friends like we used to. How?How do you make someone fall out of love?
Unfortunately you cant make someones feelings change. And it may never be like it used to be with you two. Just try talking to them...How do you make someone fall out of love?
Sorry love but the moment you entered into a sexual relationship with this person you can put all the hopes of the way your friendship used to be out the window. You may regain some shreds of memorable routines you two had again but this person will always remember those truly intimate moments.





As far as getting this person to fall out of love with you the first thing you need to do is speak to this person and tell them how you currently perceive the relationship and your personal feelings on where it should go. Honesty is the best policy and though they may not accept the fact that you don't have the same feelings for them as they have for you, they will accept it eventually and intern have more respect for you in the long run. It's better telling them the truth instead of leading them on and possibly causing more damage to the relationship they are already in.
After you've slept with a friend - more than once - and things got all weird, you want to go back to the good old days? Can't be done. By sleeping with your friend, who happened to be in a relationship already, you have killed the friendship. Sorry, but that's the way it works.





And you're right. It does make you sound like a slutty homewrecker. In the future, try not sleeping with people who are spoken for, and with whom you do not want a ';real'; relationship.
In a situation like this you have to be straight forward and tell the truth. tell them you didn't mean to compromise your friendship and you want to just be friends and that you do love them as a friend but your not in love with them. If you tell them some Sugar coated lie trust me they are not going to understand. You just have to tell the truth because playing with someones heart is not going to have good results in the end unless you just tell the truth.
Not gonna happen. You already partook in this act several times with this fellow and he now thinks/knows that he can get that from you if he wants. Sorry to say it, but you are that girl since you have already done the deed.
They will get the clue of course it means you may have to distance yourself from that person for a while and let it die and dont do any flirting when you see him!!!
sorry if you slept with a guy who has a girlfriend who you don't even like and have no intention of being with you are both a slut and a home wrecker. you made your bed hunney lie in it.
Why dont you just tell her what' wrong -.- Is not that hard o.O





Most of the time they'll understand. I mean, you didnt MEAN to, they just took it the wrong way!





Just tell her what's happening
Only time can fix something like that... just give each other some space and time might be able to make things feel like they used to.
One word: Time.
don't take a shower for few days, next time they may change their feelings