How many times do you think someone can fall in 'real' love ?

If you fell in love, and came out of love, was it love to start with ?





Doesn't love happen only once, and if you came to part with your lover (for some reason other than deceased love) and love someone else, it's only a desire to love and feel loved ?





I'm putting this in philosophy because it's a deep question.How many times do you think someone can fall in 'real' love ?
You can fall in love many times with different type of people because we can be attracted by the appearance of someone. But real love can be found once...and nothing in this world can make it fade.How many times do you think someone can fall in 'real' love ?
I think as long as a person is capable of loving - they can fall in love that many times.





Like anything/everything else - love is not perfect.





Love is an emotion.





Yes !! .. a person can really love someone - then break apart - and the emotion be real love (for that time). A woman could love her husband with everything in her .. and if he did bad things to her - over a period of time the love she felt for him could also be killed by him - but she would have truly loved him at one time in her life.





Love changes. Just as people change. As we grow, we change continously.





Love also comes in different forms. Different people love differently .. some people fall in love easily (some don't) .. other people want to fall in love - and call it love (when it's not the real thing) .. some don't want to fall in love at all (but it happens anyway) .. and other people have to abuse when they love .. some people love many people in their lifetimes - while other may mourn one love forever - and never have no other. It depends on the person.





Some people surprise themselves when they think they can never love again .. it can happen .. and it can happen better than before.





When losing a love - for whatever reason .. TIME has to heal it .. and even then, this love may live within a special place in side the heart's memories .. but loving again is possible .. and different love feelings happen with different people.





If a person is capable of love - then they can love more than once.






Infatuation;intense emotional attraction.


occurs when a man and woman first enter a relationship.


Infatuation is as perennial as grass.


During this period of infatuation a couple must establish a closer ,deeper relationship in Unconditional Love.


If not the ';fire'; of infatuation goes out and they are left with nothing but the ashes of memory.


Unconditional Love is unity with God within your own Heart.


Not dependent on external things or people.


The essence of our being is Unconditional Love,one who has become established in ';That'; Unconditional Love lives in a state of bliss.


Like the sun,laughing and smiling on all things all the time.
amit, i can only answer this by giving you an insight on me, for me what i thought was love went through two marriages, for what it was worth both of them were love in some form, just not ';in love';, never.


i waited, pray, hoped, dreamed to have that feeling just once, to know the emotion, the passion, the depth of someone accepting and loving me for me, the way he made me feel, i can't explain. the love, the need, the passion i have for him, is indescribable. i love him for who he is, i love him for who he is not, i love him for what he brings to my life. i will love him forever! he is my heart, my body, my mind and he fills my soul!


He is the deep reflection of love in me, he fills the hole in my heart with his heart, he completes me! i will never ';fall'; in love with anyone else, i will ';fall in love'; with him, many many times over infinity, every time i turn around he is there, he may not be with me, however he is there!


what i can not see, i feel, and i know!♥


amit, i fell in love for the first time, and the last time at the tender age of 52, i am in love for life!♥





True love is the deep reflection of yourself in someone else's soul!♥
we can fall in '; real '; love only once Amit!!! many people deny this fact, but it is the truth!!! the only truth!!! people say that '; we can love again '; !!! sure they can, but this time their '; love '; will not be of the same intensity as the one they first '; really loved '; !!! their first '; real '; love!!! they will definitely be more cautious and alert the next time they fall in '; love '; so as not to get hurt in the relation this time!!! thus, in this way, they will not be able to '; love '; completely and to their fullest because they will always be cautious and suspicious!!! questions like '; what if he hurts me like my previous boyfriend ? '; or '; what if he is cheating on me ? '; keeps lurking on their minds!!! thus, they will not be able to open up completely to their present boyfriend or girlfriend!!! sometimes, we tend to deceive ourselves as well!!! you know, we can '; love '; many times but the intensity of '; love '; is different with different people!!! with some people we are more comfortable than with the other!!! also, how much (and if at all ) the other person loves you plays a great role in making your love '; real '; or just another love!!!





Take care Amit!!!
I think it depends on where you are at in your life on how you will see this...when you are young your first love seems like the one TRUE love..and you will never love another...but after that you realize that loving can come in very different forms. But in my opinion while it is great to ';love someone'; it is different to just love someone than be 'IN love with someone.';


I think the IN love stuff only comes around once and when it happens you know ( and not always then but sometimes later...) Sometimes when we are in different relationships it might feel like LOVE but it is not...the real deal is isn't even about that someone loving you back ( they might be horrible and leave you) it's about that gut-wrenching, I'd pull my heart out for you, absolutely crazy loss of control emotion. The one you were ';IN love'; with.... you will never be able to forget....no matter how many more people you ';love';.
You can love over and over again and in my experience every time it happens it is more mature and i know better if it´s real or not. I have been sure i loved 3 different girls(girls i was with for 2 years or more) now i´m single again and daydream about my future love.
for me its only once! It happened to me recently. and am like...... He is my soul mate. i cant think of anyone else now, gradually he became everything to me! and Luv is Awsome! i am just loving every moment of it. and hey. hold on, i have never sen that guy, i spoke to him over the fone few a times but never seen him. wish to meet him one day! Now a days he is overseas and we are hardly talking to each other and also i dont know wot does he think of me. he says that i am his friend and he already loves someone else! but i have faith in My LOve and on my prayers.





Love u my first luv! - Missing u :(
I hope you and all others can understand that there is no such things as ';real love';. Love cannot be fake. You either love or you don't and lust comes into this. I do believe that one can love again but only when they are ready to. A persons first love is the strongest and it isn't something to forget.
That is a very deep and meaningful question.


One that requires a deep and meaningful answer.


The only thing is, there is No deep and meaningful answer.


As it depends on the individual.
Oh, it's a difficult to say ''how many times';, I think it's different.Every person is different.I think it's possible to fall many times
I've been falling in love all my life and having so much fun I never counted. Some people fall in love once and that's okay too, just don't take life too seriously it's way too short.
I think you can be in love and fall out of love with someone and then find it again with someone else.
To fall in real Love i think Only Once... for the second time onwards we wont fall in love.. we only accept the patners love
Every time one of your children are born, you fall in real real love. With partners it can be love, but sometimes it isn't. It's hard to say...
'i completely agree'..
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as many times as u can get it up
Pagal Amit, It is impossible to fall out of love. Love is such a powerful emotion, that once it envelops you it does not depart. True love is eternal. If you think that you were once in love, but fell out of it, then it wasn't love you were in. There are no 'exit' signs in love, there is only an 'on' ramp.





Straight Answer: Only once.





Yes Pagal, it's only a desire to be loved, seeking comfort and attention. Your used to someone loving you and going to someone when your feeling down, so when you come out of a relationship, you seek 'love', because you desire it. It makes sense.





Okay, you are not really asking a question here, you have answered it yourself, and want to read an expository essay na?





Love is a force in the human heart that is so influential it creates various contradicting emotions such as happiness, sorrow, gladness, depression, passiveness and eagerness.





Love occurs from something as simple as attraction until a single soul begans to dwell in two bodies. Whom you cannot live without, a source of nitrogen. When that person is hit, the pain happens inside you. It's the greatest feeling on Earth.





Love is what makes the work go around. However, love is not just limited to romantic love between men and women but covers the love of parents for their children, teachers for their students, friends for friends and one to mankind and other creatures of the earth.





If people do all kinds of good - physically, verbally and mentally - all societies of the world would be in peace and the world would bloom with pure love.





Is there love on Earth, besides love in between humans?