Monday, August 16, 2010

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met before?

okay so here's the explanation on that. back in '06 i met this girl online. i know, i know how people feel about online dating but please just hear me out i thought she was cute and she thought iw as funny and we started talking she talked about her life i talked about mine we pretty much clicked webcamed all the time called each other all the time. wrote each emails and even letters.. i grew to like her alot and i just had to know if she felt the same way and surely she did...or at least she said she did and yeah. so we were supposed to meet she even sent me a necklace of hers that i was supposed to give back in person... but i found out that over the time we were dating let's say a month after we started? she was already messing around with other guys... then when i asked about it she was like ohh i need something physical and that i was taking too long to go see her and she wanted to date around to see if i was really what she wanted and blah blah whatever her reasons were i was too hurt to listen... i hung up on her and haven't called her back or answered a text she sent me since. i now have changed my number. blocked her on everything (instant messengers, myspace and all that stuff) and yeah.. i was just wondering because it still hurts alot...and im thinking to myself wtf?i never held her...i never lived with her... what should i care? i just feel sad over what could have been anyways. is it possible to love someone that way? or am i just dilusional... can someone really just fall for another like that? having not held them or even seen a movie together at least? sometimes i think i'm mental is anyone in that same position? or has been...Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met before?
I think your feelings were very real because they were based on good conversations and a meeting of minds.


The fact that you never had a physical relationship does not mean your feelings were not real.


However, online people can present a very different impression of themselves from the real thing. They can create a persona that they enjoy being for fun, but which they could not sustain in a face-to.face relationship.


I think you should accept that you feel hurt and rejected because you just got dumped, feel a bit sorry for yourself as your feelings are perfectly valid, then try to move on.


Maybe you could see if there is some local club or classes or whatever where you might meet someone with the same interests as you?Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met before?
I think u are in love with the persons personailty, not their actual self..dont shrug your feelings off, u obviously did feel love for this girl, just not physically.


i got set up with this guy, i didnt know, and we txted for a while.. well i fell in love and the feelings were mutual..i met him and we lasted a good year. Its over now, but he was my first love..dnt gve up, id contact her and exdplain evrythn..


Good luck xoxo

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