Is it possible to fall out of love with someone you have loved for three years?

My boyfriend and I broke up after being together for three years. I really do not understand how he can just fall out of love with me. I still love him so much, and want to work it out so bad. We have been broken up for two months, but we work together. He doesn't even acknowledge that I am alive. He doesn't look at me, or even talk to me when it comes to work stuff. I just don't get it. How can he just flip a switch after three years of being in love with me. He used to tell me I was it for him, and that he was going to marry me someday. So I guess I just don't understand how he can be ok after being broken up after two months. Does this relationship have a chance of rekindling? I don't know how to move on and I really don't want to. I am still really in love with him and I don't want to be with anyone else. What should I do?Is it possible to fall out of love with someone you have loved for three years?
He probably found someone else sorry to say. If he's being a real jerk it's a possibility another girls got his attention. Men don't know what they want sometimes. I'm sure your heart is aching badly and I feel great sympathy for you. You might want to ';flip a switch'; with him too one day at a time. Don't do anything you'll regret just to keep him by your side. Once men decide how they feel that's it.Is it possible to fall out of love with someone you have loved for three years?
im sorry about your loss...but i think it may have been over for him for a long time before he broke up with you. all you need to do now is just accept that its over. its not your fault and you deserve better.
obviously its all still very soon and raw for you but tbh he sounds like a complete and utter loser for the way he has been treating you


i would expect more for even only having gone on a date with the guy let alone him ignoring you after such a long length of time


he sounds like a loser you should go out with your friends and just have fun


this may sounds a little ott but i would get another job being around him is not gonna help you in the longterm
It is very possible to fall out of love. I was with this guy for about 4 years and I'm only 21. He was my everything. But one day, I grew up and I realized that he wasn't the one for me. I had to get myself out of love with him. I did and I've been with the man of my dreams for 2 years now. He's amazing and I realize that the guy I was with before was all wrong and I only felt like I loved him because I wanted someone to love me
No, I don't think it's possible to just suddenly fall out of love. I think it's possible to fall out of love but it takes times. Maybe you didn't notice the signs, but maybe he had been falling out of love for quite some time before you guys broke up. Also, the way it sounds like, he may have someone else already for him to be acting so cold. Something similar happened to me once with my boyfriend, we had been going out for 2 yrs at the time and we broke up out of the blue, he acted cold and never called me or answered my calls. But we got back together a month later. I think he was just having doubts about being in such a serious relationship. Maybe thats what happened with your bf. Sometimes it's good to take a break. Just ignore him back. Don't acknowledge HE exists. Go out with different guys. He won't like it and if he really loves you, he'll try to get back together soon. I say give it another month. For now just keep busy! Show him you don't need him!