Why do people fall in and out of love?

Why do people fall in love, and how do they fall out of love? Love is supposed to be the realest and purest human experience - can it be that fickle? In my relationship it has happened without reason (honestly), as she now just feels differently about us. She says she loves me as a friend, but the thought of having lost her as my soulmate is incapacitating. When you love someone, it increases with each day - or so I thought. How many of you have been in my shoes or in hers? How do you get through it, and why did this all change? (I konw for certain that there is not another person - yet).





I just need to vent, and will appreciate any responses. It really hurts as I have lost my girl and best friend.Why do people fall in and out of love?
i dont know...check the book of love.Why do people fall in and out of love?
Loving someone is good. One should perform all judicious act to keep his/her lover happy. One may have to sacrifice some of his/her desire(s).
it just works that way. nobody can do anything about it.
People change and not always in the same direction. There truly is more than one meaning to the term ';grow apart';.
Young People fall in love because they are young and they all think that's the true love. But they woke up one day and realiz that they are not made for each other. So, they out from that relationshiop. Than quickly, their lonely hearts call, so here we go again, they fall and out......... It's life and we are living in it... Good love is waiting.
That's because we often mistakenly feel ';infatuation'; as ';love';. There are times that we were just infatuated with a person, and this does not mean love. Love is tested through time and experience, it is a feeling that grows and not feel in an instant.
Some people are confused about how they feel about each other and need time to think alone and try to get their thoughts straight.
You can't help who you fall in love with or even like. But you can't just all of a sudden change your mind and not love someone the same way you did the day before. your exgirlfriend still has to love you or she must of never loved you at all. It takes a long long time to stop loving someone, infact you will probly always have something for someone you have loved... But don't give up hope, don't think that theres no one out there for you. You will find someone, maybe not right away, but when the time comes you will find another girl. Good Luck!
They grow up, move on, and discover that maybe they were ';in love'; for the wrong reasons, or begin to like someone else.