How can I fall out of love with someone I love and who loves me?

I am having a relationship/ an affair with a friend here in the office and I know its wrong because she is already married, we are totally into each other.. we love each other very much.. I know its really really wrong and I just want to fall out of love so that I can move on and find someone else who is single and fitted to me.. but I'ts hard because our feelings always make us be with each other, I dont know how to ignore the feelings that I have for her and one big problem is we see each other everyday here in the office I really dont know what to do...How can I fall out of love with someone I love and who loves me?
Don't blame your feelings for making you be with each other. Man up and stop all communication with her. You said yourself that you know that it's wrong, so stop doing it!How can I fall out of love with someone I love and who loves me?
So, what do you want? Do you expect people to feel bad about you having problems when you start playing with a married woman? Golly, who could ever guess that people end up hurt when you make sex into a game? Or is it that you are just bragging, cuz you're such a stud? Doesn't much matter, because the advice is the same. You have three choices. 1. Just keep playing spin the co-worker. 2. Quit your job. 3.Grow up. I recommend three. You can control your yearning heart, and manfully put your passion on hold until she gets divorced, and you two lovebirds can joyously proclaim your undying love, by getting married. Or, you guys just get to screw more often.
Get another job!
Visualize her old man finding out, flipping out, and sticking a gun in your face. That should be enough of a motive to end this relationship, unless you are so sure of this unbelievable love that you would sacrifice your life just to be able to spend a little more time with her. You could tell her you found out you got aids from your next door neighbors crack head wife that you have also been seeing, and suggest she get checked too.
uhmmm dude


she's married


and karma is going to happen


one day u might be married


and ur wife could b havin an affair


you would NOT want that.


so move out.


of that office. or talk to her and tell her you cannot continue withh this.
self-control.


quit the job.
that is really thougth!, pray a lot man
Since I don't condone cheating, you certainly are in a dilemma. I'm not sure you can ';fall out of love'; just like that. Would it be possible to change jobs? I think in a situation like this, the only way to stop the affair is to call it quits and follow through. I know, easier said than done but if you felt good about seeing another woman, you wouldn't look for a reason to end it.
I've heard a similar story before. The woman ended up leaving the company and looking for another job.





I know it's hard but you gotta find another job if the temptation is too great.
The bible says you go to hell if you don't stop! that should scare you enough, STOP and confess to her what you did was wrong and be the big man.
I've been trying for months to convince myself that I don't love him, but my heart still loves him. The harder I try, the stronger it grows.


I don't know how to fall out of love, sorry.
i think she needs to think about where her life is right now. the two of you should talk about your future and if it can even go anywhere because of her marriage! why did she marry her husband? because she loved him. if she doesnt anymore then was she even sure she was when they married? you should think about this is you two continue...will it happen to the two of you as well?
Dude you can't just stop loving someone. Yes you are an asshole to be sleeping with another mans wife granted but the feelings are there and love is a powerful thing. Sorry that it doesn't come with an on/off switch. If it's true love between you and the lady wait until she gets a divorce and then see where you and her are headed. As far as the job goes it is not a good idea to be working together. That will just bring about those old feelings and cause tons of more trouble. Can you or her move to another department? Or my friend you may have to find yourself another job. Sorry.
find another job
its really hard , if not impossible. sometimes you cant control the emotion of passion and excitement..... only time will tell. You may have to move to a different Job , for your marriage sake. whatever you do don't tell your wife till you have made you decision on whom you chose. These are life temptation obstacles that will always be there . Next time you will learn, To not mess with anyone from work !!!
you can change your own feelings.


keep busy and keep looking.
Ask God what you should do. You know what you are doing is wrong. You will be held accountable for everything you do. Sow what you want to reap. If you do not want someone to do that to you once you get married, I would highly suggest you don't do it to others.
You are in a sticky situaton. Does your employer condone this behavior? I feel sorry for you but I don't know what to say. Good Luck.